Pretty AND Powerful
We had the pleasure of having Kartika Anderson of My Blue is Blue as a guest on Life’s Issues with Lloyd Rosen. Kartika offers some insightful, educational and sometimes funny blogs on her page at MyBlueisBlue.com. Following is one that she graciously sent us to share with our listeners/readers. You can also listen to Kartikas interview with Lloyd Here. For more information on being a guest on any of our show please go to Tough Talk Radio Network hosted shows.
I was parking my Jeep on a short incline. Also, I wanted to be sure I was equidistant from each white strip on the pavement. Looking up and forward, my concentration was shattered. Off in the distance I saw a princess. Spotting princesses is almost as rare as mermaid sightings. I’ve seen a group of those too recently. However, it was just a picture so I didn’t get to talk to them. I threw my car into park and jumped out.
Now she was standing for others to see and comment on. Her dress was pale blue, flouncy. I could see the sparkles as I closed the distance between us. She had curly blonde hair, so cute. She didn’t have a wand or scepter or anything in her hands. Who was she? I can’t remember who wears blue.
Her mom was tucking her into the car, so I had to walk faster.” Hi there! Hi!”
Her mom turned toward me.
“I see you have a princess in your car”, I said.
“Oh, yes”, she said quietly. The princess poked her head out.
“Hi there!, I said to her. Which princess are you?”
She simply smiled.
I asked her mom, “Are you headed to a party?”
“No”, she said
“Oh, why so dressed up?”
“It’s ‘pick your fight day’. That’s all she was willing to wear.”
“Oh, how old is she?”
I turned from mom and bent down to speak to the little one inside the car again. “Well, I’m so glad to have met a beautiful princess today. Bye sweetie.”
She smiled a wide grin for me. As I walked to my apartment, I knew there was a lesson in this scenario. I couldn’t wait to get to my computer and start to comb it out.
Ladies, do you have a dress or suit that when you put it on you feel pretty and powerful? When you wear it do folks take notice of your energy? Are they drawn near? Do they fall under your spell for a few minutes?
When I used to feel down or weak, I’d put on my old college sweatshirt. It is an XL, grey, frayed sleeves thing. It wasn’t pretty however, when I put it on I would gain temporary strength and boldness. But I was kinda hiding in it.
It’s ratty and way too big for me now. I think I need to exchange it for a “princess gown”. I need something that presents the dreamer and optimist in me. (That’s what the princesses represented to me as a girl. Their stories ended happily, things worked out. I never really made the connection that a man was necessary for that to happen. Guess that’s because I was raised by a mom on her own.) I need something that allows my “magic” to sparkle. And it’s gotta fit properly!
Once we find our “gowns”, let’s wear them everyday. Let’s put up a fight when someone thinks we should take them off. Let’s recognize the sisterhood of those with “princess powers”.